I have done the math of the Dysfunctional, abusive Family, child abuse for decades due to what I experienced first hand. Like it or not, its what it All comes down to, the Accounting. The accounting most people don't do because they are too busy believing that $$ is the real economy. But, it isn't.
If parents are governed by others then they are NOT qualified to raise children
BECAUSE PARENTS WHO ARE GOVERNED BY OTHERS ARE CHILDREN THEMSELVES